- When you are the cook and in denial that you are affecting the health of others: I cook with love.
- When you are the consumer and in denial that you have a problem: I eat what is in front of me.
By now, you should know my thoughts on how to start eating healthier…but a quick reminder:
- Stop the excuses
- Measure and weigh your food
- Log what you eat
- Prepare your meals
I mentioned in a recent article that I watch My 600-Lb Life and I like Dr. Now. If you haven’t watched the show – watch at least one episode. While I don’t know anyone with weight issues similar to Dr. Now’s patients, I do know people that live similar lifestyles.
What’s the Lifestyle?
Blaming others for how and what they eat. I’ve seen many people successfully lose lots of weight by following a weight loss program and within days of “finishing” the program, they revert back to old habits. Old habits come back for various reasons; one of which is going back to buying and ordering bad food. In a marriage, one spouse might do all the shopping and cooking, so the other simply eats what is put in front of them. For children, they are either following their parent’s lead or they are controlling the food purchases.
Love with Food
Almost every week, someone – who knows they make poor food choices – says to me If it wasn’t in the house, I wouldn’t eat it. Who is to blame? If you purchased the food, then you are at fault. If you continually eat the food that others buy, then you are at fault. When you make food choices because of what your kids choose to eat, then you are at fault.
If you love yourself and others in your life, choose to feed everyone better. Stop buying and eating the crap food. Be an example and be a parent by making smart food choices based on their health, not them stopping or pouting because they aren’t getting what they want.
Keli Hay is a certified personal trainer using her weight loss success to help others.